Do we really help?

Hati

Where does it all go? We are always paying towards kids in poverty ,giving them our clothes and what not. But the thing is we never see what happens after. I feel as if when ever i donate something it never reaches a child or family. If you look at Hati ,after the disaster  they were given more money than they had from before the disaster. But the country is still in a horrible state. I feel as if the money and items don't ever go to the people in need. When i was younger i used to always give my old clothes to the salvation army. I sometimes would even throw in my toys i wouldn't play with. I then realized a few years ago that all the items i donated go into a store and are resold . So i stooped that right away. I want to help others in need and give them what they cannot regularly have ,not have it go into a store and be sold again. My question is we actually help others in need or is there some theft going on with these companies who claim to be giving it all back to the needy?